Trudy Annette Kretchman

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March 22, 1929 ~ May 10, 2023

Born in: Chicago, IL
Resided in: Atlanta, GA

Trudy Kretchman (nee Hammer) passed away peacefully on May 10, 2023, surrounded by her loving family at Accent Hospice Care in Cumming, GA. She will always be remembered by family and friends for her kindness, fierce intelligence, occasional feistiness, family loyalty, and green thumb.

Trudy was born in Chicago in 1929. Her German parents had emigrated to America hoping for a better life. Sadly, her father passed away within months of her arrival, so Trudy returned to Germany while her mother continued working in New York City. Trudy grew up with caring relatives in pre-war Munich, Germany.

With WWII approaching, her mother brought Trudy back to New York in 1938. She attended grade school in Manhattan and high school in Astoria, Queens. Always an excellent student, she won a citywide essay contest in high school and met Eleanor Roosevelt at the awards ceremony.

After graduation, Trudy moved to Manhattan and took secretarial classes while living in a women-only boarding house on the Upper West Side. She found work in the steno pool at a large shipping company and moved to Greenwich Village (where she briefly adopted the beatnik lifestyle), and later Staten Island (where she learned to drive in her mid-twenties).

Trudy advanced in her career to become the leasing manager at the London Towers Apartments on 23rd Street, Manhattan. Here she met her future husband Arthur, who had come to her office seeking an apartment. He clearly found more than he had bargained for!

Trudy and Arthur were married in August,1956. Arthur had always dreamed of building his own business, so the newlyweds moved to New Orleans, LA to open “TruArt”, a seafood processing company. Arthur Jr. arrived shortly thereafter, followed by sister Amy.

The family moved to Tampa, FL and St. Simons Island, GA, before eventually settling in Atlanta. Once Amy and Arthur reached high school age, Trudy returned to work and found her niche as Administrative Director of the English Department at Emory University. There she happily remained until her retirement in 1994.

Always glad to be learning, Trudy enrolled in college classes at Emory. Her proudest academic achievement was graduating Phi Beta Kappa from Emory in her fifties.

Upon retiring, Trudy remained active in the Emory community and cared for Arthur, who passed away in 2002. After his death, she concentrated on gardening, writing poetry, and helping raise and spoil her beloved granddaughters Hannah and Emma. She relished spending time with Amy and her husband Bob, Arthur and his fiancée Mary Lynn, granddaughter Hannah, granddaughter Emma, her husband Storm and their baby Slone.

Trudy remained in her home in Druid Hills for just under 50 years. Her family wishes to thank the caring staff at Accent Hospice of Cumming for their help, and Trudy’s many friends who called in her final days.

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  1. Christy says:

    My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Trudy was a lovely woman. Although short, I thoroughly enjoyed my time with her.
    Best regards,
    Christy Donohue

  2. Lee Bailey says:

    Love is as love does. When you look at the lives she touched, its easy to magine the KIND person Trudy must have been. Heaven is rejoicing upon her arrival. Trudy surely left the world a better place. My heart felt and deepest sympathy goes out to the children, family and friends.

  3. Lee Ann says:

    I worked with Trudy for eight years in the English Department. Her kindness was legendary: she routinely brought in flowers and baked goods to cheer the office, sponsored Cambodian refugees, and offered help wherever it was needed. I’ll never forget the time she gave me the money so my wife could buy a train ticket home to Philadelphia when her mother passed away and didn’t have the money to get back for the funeral. Trudy and I remained friends after I left the English Department and she retired, but we saw each other when we could. I’m so glad we could get together on my last visit to Atlanta in 2018, and I treasure the 40 years that I knew her.

    • Martha Henn says:

      Thank you to Lee Ann for her recollections. I am among the legion of grad students who passed through the Emory English Dept during Trudy’s tenure. She and all the admin staff – including in my day Lee Ann, AndreaDeMan, and Carole Anderson- were wonderful friends to us as grad students. Thank you to Trust for her many kindnesses to so many young learners.

  4. Lopez Martinez Family says:

    Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Love and sympathy to her family and friends

  5. Larry Prendergast says:

    To Arthur, Mary Lynn, and Trudy’s family,

    Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. What a beautiful write-up
    about an amazing woman–may she Rest In Peace. Larry and Mary Prendergast

  6. Kayte Brinkman says:

    Trudy was a beloved staple at Douglas & Company Hair Studio. I knew her for the 9 years I’ve worked at this establishment and always felt excited to see her name on the caller Id to schedule her next hair appointment. She was such a witty and kind woman and always made the time to ask how things were and to listen from a generous place in her heart. She cared and I will miss hearing her little jokes as she walked out the door. Truly grateful to have known such an amazing woman. I am so sorry for the loss to your family. We will miss her very much
    Big hugs and love your way 🤍

  7. Douglas Stalnaker says:

    Being Trudy’s hairdresser for over 30 years was one thing. But to chat with her about the latest plays on Broadway, the meaning of a new movie or the state of our politics were some of the best conversations that I could be privileged to have had with this wonderful woman. I will miss her. My thoughts are with her and her family.

  8. Chase and Amber Connor says:

    Trudy is a kind and loving sole who is without a doubt offering her opinion as to where and what she would like to plant in her new garden. Of which I am sure Arthur is complying lovingly.
    Trudy is a gracious host and always gives happily without expectation. My family and I have had the pleasure to know and serve Trudy for 20 years. We would see her once a week for two hours toiling in the garden, talking about plants and learning about each other’s life. Trudy always spoke of her family with loving kindness and joy. She was ever enamored by the colorful landscape that would present it self each season; and how could it not. Trudy would feed her garden the best of nutrients and do so year round. The same was true for the birds and squirrels (with some reluctance), her cats and even in her later years a raccoon and an opossum that traveled, ate, and took up quarters together in Trudy’s garden room ; completed with their own food bowls, bedding and Trudy’s blessing.
    That is Trudy. Always giving, without expectation and receiving back the joy of being able to do so. What greater blessing to the Creator than a child who who emulates Your work. May we all learn to be kind hosts, gracious givers, and find the same joy that Trudy did within her family, her community, and nature.
    We love you Trudy and we will see you in the garden again.

  9. George Duncan Bryan Griffin says:

    Trudy was like a second Mum to Me on Many occasions when Art and I were in our High School days together…and, during Our College days, as well Always gracious and Loving.
    Go Georgia Tech
    Sincerely,
    George Duncan Bryan Griffin

  10. Joe Baird says:

    I knew Trudy well. She and I were in a writing group for many years. She was a skillful writer of both prose and poetry. She had a gift for teaching others how to enjoy and write poetry. She and I taught a class on poetry to senior students at what is now called Emory OLLI. But the main thing about Trudy I remember was her wit. She was an absolute joy to be around.

  11. Steven Saum says:

    As a student at Emory, I was fortunate to have Trudy as my supervisor in the English department. Which is to say that I saw the thoughtful, professional, and welcoming environment that she nurtured. She was someone who cared deeply about the people she worked with — and the students they served in the best way. She was kind and good and elegant, and all of us were lucky to work alongside her and learn from her. In one sweet and generous gesture, Trudy baked for me — for my 21st birthday — a chocolate cake with sour cream icing! Thank you, Trudy, for the light you brought into so many lives, and for what you modeled for others.


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