Ben Jeff Meadows, Jr.
MEADOWS, Ben Jeff, Jr.
B. J. Meadows, Jr., 93, of Tampa, FL, passed away on February 22, 2015, in Atlanta, GA. He was a devoted Christian, husband, father, son, and friend, serving as a family practice physician to the Tampa community for 46 years. Dr. Meadows’ practice of medicine spanned 52 years.
Dr. Jeff Meadows married Jean Goretsky Meadows on July 9, 1949. They were married 51 years and raised four children. Jeff was born on January 27, 1922 in Louvale, GA and moved with his family several years later to High Springs, FL, where he grew up. A child of the Great Depression, Jeff helped his father with any odd jobs available, and his family’s faith in God also sustained them through these difficult times. After graduating from High Springs High School, Jeff left home to complete his undergraduate studies at University of Florida and Cornell University. In 1948, he obtained his MD degree from Temple University in Philadelphia, PA.
Shortly afterwards, Dr. Meadows and his new wife sailed to Japan, where he was part of the American Occupation Forces post WWII. The Korean Conflict then ensued. During this time, Dr. Meadows served in Korea as Regimental Surgeon, 8th Cavalry Regiment, 1st Cavalry Division, eventually attaining the rank of Major. He was awarded the Bronze Star for meritorious service in a combat zone.
Stateside, Dr. Meadows first began practicing medicine in Dade City, FL, moving to Tampa in 1953. He set up a general practice, Drs. Myers and Meadows, with his friend and medical school colleague, Rex Myers, Jr., MD. Dr. Meadows was on staff at Tampa General Hospital, St. Joseph’s Hospital, and multiple nursing homes. For many years, he made house calls. In 1974, Dr. Meadows became a Charter member of the American Academy of Family Practice. He was also a founding member of Memorial Hospital of Tampa. In later years, Dr. Meadows was an adjunct professor at USF Medical School and treated patients at the USF Student Health Clinic.
Dr. Meadows was a steadfast member of Bayshore Baptist Church for 60 years, where he served several times as Chairman of the Board of Deacons and, in later years, as a Stephen Minister. Dr. Jeff regularly volunteered his medical services at the Judeo-Christian Health Clinic, and he served on the Board of Directors at Alafia House, a residential facility for mentally disabled adults.
Jeff liked sports and games, and he had an understated competitive streak. He ran track in high school and at the University of Florida, thereafter a lifelong Gator football fan. Jeff was a member of Palma Ceia Golf and Country Club, where he enjoyed playing golf for many years. He liked playing bridge with friends and, after retirement, traveling, especially to places of natural beauty in the U.S. Jeff had a great sense of humor, and to those who knew him well, his ability to tell a story was legendary. His spirit of generosity and kindness were manifest to all who knew him. His family loves him dearly and misses him already.
Dr. Meadows is preceded in death by his wife of 51 years, Jean Goretsky Meadows; his parents, B.J. Meadows, Sr., and Gladys Cain Meadows; a sister, Virginia Clifton-Alvarez; and second wife, Martha Bostwick. He is survived by his children: Kathleen Meadows Cool Richard of Wilmington, NC; Lindi Ann Meadows of Atlanta, GA; B.J. Meadows III Beth of Arlington, VA; Elizabeth Meadows LeDuc Lawrence of Decatur, GA; 9 grandchildren: Erik, Amy, Alicia, Nicholas, Frances, Julie, Sara, Celeste, and Caroline; 4 great-grandchildren: James, Adelle, Greta, and Fern; a goddaughter, Margaret Anne; and numerous nieces and nephews.
Private interment at Florida National Cemetery, Bushnell. Celebration of Life at Bayshore Baptist Church, 3111 West Morrison Avenue, Tampa, FL 33629 on Saturday, March 14, 2015, at 11:00 AM with reception immediately following. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Alzheimer’s Association at 225 N. Michigan Ave., Fl. 17, Chicago, IL 60601-7633 or alz.org.
There are not enough words or I do not have the vocabulary to say how I feel about Jeff Meadows. He was without a doubt the kindest and most gentle person I have ever know, not to mention his real gentleman behavior. I miss him much. As his children you can be more than proud of the legacy he has left.
They broke the mold when Jeff died! The Myers & Meadows go back so far I can’t remember when we didn’t have one or the other to go to. I will miss our treasured times together and the many stories we heard. My thoughts and prayers are with you .Our fathers exemplified Micah 6:8
Will miss you, dear Grandad. Forever grateful for what your words and actions have taught me.
I’m so sorry for your loss, but I know your dad is with his Lord and is rejoicing in his new life.
Dr. Meadows is so loved and he earned it. We have missed him at Bayshore for sometime now since he moved to be closer to family. In a way we are looking forward to having his memorial service. It brings him and the family he loves back into the church he loves. It gives us all a chance to be with him again. Thank you for giving us this gift.
I’m sorry for your lost. I will miss Uncle Jeff He was a very good man
Our prayers are with the family in this time of mourning. Dr. and Mrs. Meadows have been special to us for over 35 years because of our relationship with Dr. Rex and Gertrude Myers. Also we met Missy at a conference in North Carolina when she was a teenager. We continue to enjoy a deep relationship with Rex Myers III and Dana Martin and their families. We regret that we cannot be present for Dr. Meadows memorial service. Please let us know if we can ever assist your family in any way. You can always reach us through Dana. May God bless you richly in the days to follow.
Ev and Joy Robertson
I am sorry to hear about the death of Dr. Meadows. I knew him through Bayshore Baptist Church. We both served on the Missions Committee. Through our time together, I began to see the kindness and generosity Jeff had. His gentle way of speaking led one to appreciate his steadfast concern for others. I’m glad my life and his intersected, even though briefly.
I was only privileged to know Dr. Meadows for 15 years, but what a privilege. You could see Jesus when you saw Dr. Meadows.
Jack and I had the privilege of knowing Dr. Jeff for over 50 years that we have been members of Bayshore Baptist Church. I had two connections with Dr. Jeff besides patient/doctor and that was training for Stephen Ministries and being partners in the Watchman on the Wall prayer group. I have found him to be the kindest, most gentle man I have ever known.
Uncle Jeff, as I affectionately called him, was unlike anyone I have ever known.He was truly a man of God. He was everything from a mentor, a teacher, to a colleague.I was blessed to practice medicine with Jeff in the same office he shared with my dad.He was the consummate professional, and highly esteemed in the medical community.Uncle Jeff was also my friend, and I miss my friend. Rex E. Myers III
I knew Dr. Meadows during my time at Bayshore Baptist as Minister of Education. He was gentle and gentile man who loved the Lord, his friends, and his family. He was kind and gracious. His life and ministry exemplified the best God intends for all of us. I once had the opportunity to see his Korean War pictures in which he was in his mid-20’s and serving in the medical corp. He served his country as well as his Lord. I am grateful for his life and for his encouragement to me and countless others. He will be missed but his memory and legacy will live on in all who knew him.
Jeff was a special friend of ours. We enjoyed spending time with him& Jean & playing bridge. We also had fun with Jeff & Martha. The thing I always liked was how Jeff & Jean kidded each other. They made us feel welcome in their home. They were also members of our Sunday School Class Roadrunners at Bayshore. He is missed.
Uncle Jeff is in God’s hands, but will always be in our hearts. I am sorry for your loss…your family is in my prayers.
Uncle Jeff was one of the finest Christian men I have ever known. Kind and gentle in nature, but a giant to those who knew him. Words can never express the gratitude of the Clifton family, particularly for what he has done for my brother and my late mother. God Bless you Kathi, Lindi, Jeff, and Missy in this difficult time.
To my dear and oldest friends: I was at your house so often when we were little kids, that I know a little of what you are missing with your dad’s passing. He was so patient and tender. He was a gentle soul. He was the calm with the stormhowever hilarious! swirling around when I’m sure he expected to come home and relax. I have such memorable treasures of good times with all of you! Donny texted me in NC to tell me your dad passed and I wish I was in town to be there. Please know my love is sent to surround each of you in this time of loss and to express my gratitude for your friendship, the good times and the priceless memories. Thank you for being in my life and helping me to be me! I will treasure you all!
Much love, Janet Clamon Shoaf
Judd and I want to share our condolences for Dr. Jeff. He became part of our family when he married Martha Bostwick. We had him in our home and he was part of our gatherings. What a sweet kind man he was! Loved by many! He truly was a gentleman of gentlemen. Prayers for the family and much love.
Judd and Cathy Bostwick
My memories of “Dr. Jeff” go back to my earliest years. He delivered me and my siblings when we were born in the 50’s and was our wonderful doctor and friend into adulthood. He will always be in my thoughts as being one of the kindest, most gentle and engaging men I’ve ever known.